life expectations
As parents we need to hold loosely the expectations we have for our kids and for ourselves because things don’t always happen the way we want them to, in fact most of the time they don’t.
Raising kids with pets
Raising kids with pets is a very controversial topic because people are firmly on one side of this decision: waiting to have pets after kids or getting pets before kids. I understand the reasons for wanting to wait, namely worrying the pet will not handle being “replaced” by a baby or that they will not bond well with the child. For me though, I think with proper training and preparation, pets can provide kids with some well deserved love!
Stay at home mom life
As a SAHM we wear many hats. We are the schedule makers, chauffeurs, budget keepers, assistants, and much more. This means we are in charge of all our household schedules, doctors appointments, vacation planning, and childcare for when you have otherwise committed.
why I apologize to my kid
I knew that once I had calmed down, I needed to go back in and apologize. Why did I need to apologize? There are 3 main reasons why I apologize to my kid.
Qualities I admire in my kids
My favorite thing of all about my children though is their imagination. When wheelchair gloves make you a superhero or a blanket over your head makes you invisible, life becomes more like an action movie. Sometimes I need to have that kind of imagination in my own life. Believing in the impossible and making sure to laugh more at myself!
Taking charge of your health
It has been information like that, that has led me to realize that while a doctor is a good resource, they are just that: a resource. My goal is not to distrust or always second guess doctors. But rather to find a way to be the owner of my own health and use them for guidance and consultation.
Moms supporting moms
A true picture of moms supporting moms is feeling support from all sides and in all aspects of life. Where we spend less time judging and more time supporting.
The day my life changed forever
Everything was going as I planned it when in August 2017 we found out that we were pregnant! We were over the moon excited. We could not wait to start planning our life as a family of three. We started by moving into our first home and ordering paint and furniture for the baby’s room. We talked about what we would do if the child had my allergies or family hearing loss or if they needed glasses like my husband. We were proud of ourselves for talking about every potential situation that might come up with our new arrival. But our lives changed forever when we went to our 20 week ultrasound.
I’m an adult now…when did that happen?
Tonight I swept the stairs and put food in the crockpot for lunch tomorrow...I own a house…we are thinking of starting to try for a kid…I’m on a diet, watching what I eat…my next exciting purchase is going to hopefully be new floors…when did I become an adult?
baby-led weaning: why we loved it and think you will too!
When our son was old enough, I was excited to introduce him to food. I did the only thing I knew, which was to go out and buy some different baby food purees and start introducing them to him, a new one every three days. My excitement quickly faded when our meal times started to look like a speed race of us trying to spoon as much puree into my son’s mouth before he got upset…
What is this stain on my shirt? - cherishing the toddler years
Now, do I miss the days of having clean clothes at the beginning AND end of each day? Absolutely! But these stains remind me of the very short, precious time that I get to spend with my toddler.
can we play? parenting during a pandemic
Because of pandemic shutdowns, we haven’t been able to go to as many places as we would have normally. Recently though, I had a very concerning experience that made me seriously consider what we are modeling for our children during this pandemic when it comes to social interactions.
sensory play ideas: keep your kids engaged and learning indoors
Right now, in the middle of winter and a pandemic, I’m sure we are all looking for ways to keep our kids engaged while indoors. One of the best ways that I have found to entertain my little one, and help him learn in the process, is through sensory play.
Thyroid awareness month - the importance of listening to your body
January is National Thyroid Awareness Month, and recently, I found out what a crucial role the thyroid plays in your overall health and why it is essential to listen to your body.
Moms supporting moms
Welcome to the club! When you become a mom, you enter into an exclusive club. Once you are a part of the club, other members can easily recognize you. We all get a “membership jacket”…which is usually whatever clothes we are wearing that are covered in spit-up, milk, and partially chewed Cheerios. Our messy buns, yoga pants, and little to no makeup are markers of our membership too.
“Just Me and My Medela” - Tips for Exclusive Pumping
After a year of exclusively pumping, I have learned a lot. I am so happy that I did it, because I believe that I gave my son the best nutrition that I could, and because of that, I wouldn’t change a thing. So if you find yourself in the position where you need to (or want to?) exclusively pump, here are some tips on how to survive exclusive pumping…
Postpartum Must-Dos
The miracle of birth happens. Our bodies go through something that is equal parts beautiful and traumatic, and we birth a baby. Some vaginally and others via c-section. Either way, our body goes through the ringer.
“That’s Just How It Is” … But Is It Really?
But I couldn’t help but wonder if that HAS to be a part of life? Yes, it happens all the time and “everyone” else does it, but does that mean it is my only option? Is it what is healthiest for me and my family?
From “Nausea, Nausea, Nausea” to “Why yes, I am wearing the same clothes I wore yesterday” – A Journey Through Pregnancy
Welcome to my photo journey through pregnancy…I hope you enjoy!